Warning signs

Signs you may be affected

Behavioral signs

These follow the logic of the WHO's Gaming Disorder criteria (ICD-11): loss of control, the activity crowding out everything else, and carrying on despite harm.

  • Spending several hours a day with AI chatbots, and more each month
  • Choosing AI interaction over human relationships
  • Feeling upset or anxious when unable to access AI (similar to withdrawal symptoms observed in behavioral addictions)
  • Making important decisions based primarily on AI input
  • Losing sleep to continue AI conversations
  • Neglecting work, school, or responsibilities for AI time

Thought patterns

Joseph Weizenbaum documented this phenomenon as early as 1966 at MIT: users of his simple ELIZA chatbot attributed genuine understanding to a program that merely reflected their words back. He later wrote that "extremely short exposures to a relatively simple computer program could induce powerful delusional thinking in quite normal people." Today's chatbots are far more convincing than ELIZA.

  • Believing the AI truly understands you in a unique way
  • Thinking the AI has special knowledge or abilities
  • Feeling the AI sends you hidden messages
  • Believing you have a special connection with the AI that others cannot understand
  • Finding it hard to distinguish AI advice from your own thoughts
  • Thoughts about the AI intruding at random times

Emotional signs

  • Feeling emotionally closer to AI than to humans
  • Experiencing strong emotions (love, anger, fear) toward AI
  • Feeling lonely without AI access
  • Preferring to share problems with AI rather than people
  • Experiencing paranoia about AI or technology
  • Mood significantly affected by AI interactions

If friends or family are expressing concern about your AI use, or if you find yourself getting defensive when AI limitations are pointed out, take that seriously. "They simulate human relationships," UC Irvine psychiatrist Dr. Adrian Preda told the Wall Street Journal. "Nothing in human history has done that before." Defending that relationship against people who know you is a signal in itself.

Signs to watch for in a loved one

Early warning signs

  • Increased secrecy about phone/computer use
  • Talking about AI as if it were a person
  • Referring to AI "friends" or "relationships"
  • Decreased interest in human social activities
  • Sleep pattern changes (staying up late for AI)
  • Mood changes correlated with AI access

Moderate concern

  • Making claims that seem disconnected from reality
  • Expressing unusual beliefs about AI capabilities
  • Social withdrawal becoming pronounced
  • Neglecting hygiene, nutrition, or responsibilities
  • Defensive or hostile when AI use is questioned
  • New vocabulary or speech patterns from AI

Serious warning signs

Dr. Keith Sakata, a psychiatrist at UCSF, has treated 12 patients with AI-related psychotic symptoms including paranoia, delusions, and inability to distinguish chatbot interactions from reality. A 2025 case report in Innovations in Clinical Neuroscience describes a 26-year-old woman with no history of psychosis who came to believe she could talk to her dead brother through an AI chatbot.

  • Expressing paranoid beliefs about surveillance or control
  • Hearing or seeing things others don't
  • Making major life decisions based on AI input
  • Complete social isolation
  • Inability to distinguish AI-generated content from reality
  • Any mention of self-harm or harm to others
  • Dramatic personality changes

How to approach a loved one

The guide for families covers what to do, what to avoid, and how to start the conversation.

When to seek emergency help

Call 911 or go to the emergency room if:

  • Immediate threat of harm to self or others
  • Severe psychotic symptoms (active hallucinations, extreme paranoia)
  • Unable to care for basic needs (eating, hygiene)
  • Expressing specific plans for violence or suicide
  • Complete break from reality

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